[00:00:04] This show does not come with instructions. Think at your own risk. The Kate Dalley Show starts now. A man has ruined a weekend away with his girlfriend by saying what he was thinking. Our reporter Emma Bradford is at the scene. Martin Bishop and Eleanor Shaw had stopped at a cosy country pub after a romantic walk when Miss Shaw looked up meaningfully at Bishop and asked what he was thinking at that very moment.
[00:00:31] The weekend was about to go very wrong indeed. I was hoping he would say maybe this would be a great place to bring the kids one day. Or even something corny but sweet like I have everything I'll ever need right here. And what did you say, Martin? I said pigs are much bigger than you expect.
[00:01:05] One of them was so big you could ride it. More from us later. A man says what's really on his mind. Don't you love it? A big thank you to Dr. Warren Farrell. And the peas story always gets me.
[00:01:33] I've relayed that story a couple of times on the air. I think Warren Farrell joined me probably, I don't know, six or seven years ago now and told that story. And it really goes to what men and women bring to the table. And that women are more likely to have a little more empathy with the kids.
[00:01:55] And the men are more likely to make sure that that child sticks to a commitment that they've made. And the importance of having a man and woman. Because I remember last time I was on the show too, everything was gay marriage, gay marriage. And there were so many of us going, you need a man and a woman because we just bring such different traits to the table. No wonder we work together to raise families, right?
[00:02:23] And there's a lot to learn on both sides. So I'm going to have the phone lines open. If you want to comment on that, great. There's a lot I can talk about. There's even some things I can bring to the table about yesterday's show with Dr. Brian Artis and nicotine. Because I think it's very misunderstood. Extremely misunderstood. So I'll try to get there today as well in the remaining time.
[00:02:50] But I just, I want to leave this open because I know you probably have some thoughts on anything that was said in the last hour. And of course, feel free to do that. 888-673-1450. You know, he said something about respect. And I feel like respect is even more important than love sometimes because it's really what we want, right? Everybody wants respect. They, you know that when you respect the person, that is kind of the showing form of love, right?
[00:03:20] You respect them. You love them enough to respect them, to do what they do and support it. And so I think that that is something that needs, it needs to be talked about more. Because you can tell the women that, and I was talking to Dr. Farrell about this on the break and we'll hit it next time. But it's easy for women. And I've felt this too.
[00:03:45] And so I have to actually make myself not do it is to be the momager, not only of the household, but of the husband too. Right? Because you're the one coordinating the plans. And it's, you know, you're going to, we're really good at multitasking. But the problem is, is that we multitask into kind of telling the husband what to do every five seconds. And that's not okay. And so there's a lot of traits that are good.
[00:04:10] But then we have to, we have to sort of realize, hey, you know, there's a respect in the role of the husband father as well. And so I'll take a quick call. Go ahead, caller. Yeah. I was raised in what I thought at the time was a traditional family. You know, it was, I was born in the 50s. Right. So I was raised in the 60s and 70s. And my father and I, until I left the house, went into college, I mean, we fought like two dogs all the time. We were just constantly on each other.
[00:04:40] And my mom was always the nurturer. But then after I left the home, everything he tried to teach me basically came to bear. And so it was like my father and I became good friends. And everything he had said to me, which I hated at the time, was like, yeah, he's right on the money. Yeah. So it was, I mean, he definitely played a role. I mean, it wasn't probably fun for him to have a, you know, go to war with me every time he tried to tell me something. But I think I turned out okay. I think you turned out all right. Thanks so much for sharing that. I really appreciate it. Thank you.
[00:05:10] It goes really to the, there's such an importance there. And, you know, I don't think my dad was super easy on us growing up. And he had things that, that were benchmarks that, that, that he wanted us to reach. And we all, I think, grew up in a culture where, you know, I'm, I'm going to guess, I'm just going to guess that, that if your parents were married, your mom was cooking a little bit more. She was taking care of the household and raising kids.
[00:05:38] And that was a plus, and that was a good thing. In fact, it was a wonderful thing. And why is that? Because you were the, probably the kid that rode off on the bike all day and knew that you were going to probably come home and you were going to have the stability and you were going to have dinner and you were going to, you were going to come right back to your family. But you had that freedom and confidence to go explore and then come home. And I feel like in this day and age, I don't, I'm hoping we still have that around.
[00:06:07] I'm hoping that, that people still feel that way. I know my daughters are very much like that. As far as, you know, they, they want to cook and they want to, they want to, you know, maintain a household. And it's funny, I was listening to this tape from the 1950s and it was really, just look how they're making this sound. They're almost making it sound like, oh, okay. So this is the 1950s. Just listen to the woman narrator.
[00:06:34] Educational films like this one reflect society's belief that women could find fulfillment only as housewives and mothers. Only, only as housewives. But like, like that's not a, that's not okay. Like there's something wrong with that. So listen. I let it come to a full rolling boil again. It won't take long. She's cooking. You like to cook, don't you pet? Oh, it's not just liking to cook. It's, it's more.
[00:07:05] Well, it's accomplishing something. It's me cooking. Me, Susan Douglas. And not just cooking, but we're creating something special. Oh, I wish Ms. Holland could talk to you. She could say it so much better than I can. Who's Ms. Holland? She's my home economics teacher. Remember when we had home ec? Okay. So the whole video is like this, how they raised girls to be women in the 1950s. Like, like it's some horrible thing.
[00:07:34] And then the women are put in a position where if you say you're a housewife, they go, well, I'm just a housewife. And I'm, I'm over here applauding. Yay, you're a housewife. That's awesome. You're raising kids. You're, you're their stability. That actually lends to their confidence more than saying how wonderful they are every five seconds. Right. Is that confident, stable household as much as, as we can offer that up to children.
[00:07:57] And what's crazy is, is we're out there trying to reinvent the wheel into what is now the new nuclear family, which really isn't, it's just love and that's it. And whatever, whatever goes. But the people doing that are also cheering that on also grew up in, in pretty, I would say most of the time in a pretty, pretty stable environment with a mom and dad. So now we're trying to reinvent all of that.
[00:08:24] And I think it's, I think it gets really, really hard. You know, I, I, I'm, I'm pretty traditional. So I, I know most women on the radio are not going to tell you that. Or they probably aren't because they're probably career, you know, into the career of being on the radio. But I'm actually, I'm, you can ask my husband. I actually really like the role of womanhood and motherhood.
[00:08:50] And I think it's so vital and so important because it really goes to how the kids come out of that. And they, and they see a mom being a mom and a dad being a dad. And there's nothing wrong with that. They treat it now as if, oh, they were so demented back in the fifties. They were such simpletons, you know, just doing folding laundry was their purpose in life.
[00:09:17] And I, I, as I was watching this video, I was just abhorred at the fact that taking care of your family was considered so beneath, you know. And I thought, my gosh, you know, there's something pretty wonderful about raising kids. And if you have to make a choice to raise kids and maybe put the career on the back shelf, do it. Because raising human beings, I'm sorry, but there's, there's something pretty amazing about that, that no career could ever match. Ever.
[00:09:47] There's, I don't think there's any award. I don't think there's anything so significant as to, as to compete with raising nice, well-mannered human beings that have values. Right. And that are confident and that, that, that, that enjoy, enjoy being a woman or enjoy being a man. Right. I would think. Hi, caller. Welcome to the show. What's on your mind. Hi.
[00:10:15] I hope, I hope everyone realizes feminism is right out of the communist playbook. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. Right out of the Marxism playbook. Yeah, it is. Absolutely. And it was a conjured up manufactured event. And most people don't realize that. I so appreciate that. Thank you. Most people don't realize that. I've done shows on the, on the women that sat around a table and figured that they were going to be the ones that brought on the
[00:10:45] feminist movement. And I actually had the sister of one of these gals and the, the, the main gal's name was Kate, ironically. And she was a, the woman that was a lesbian, schizophrenic. I'm not kidding. These are some of the women. Um, and they're the ones that were actually, uh, there to spawn. I'm going to say spawn. Cause I have to use that word. Cause it'll conjure up. And, uh, the word conjure, because that's exactly what they did.
[00:11:12] Um, they basically manipulated an event and tried to portray women as unhappy, tried to portray women as unfulfilled in every kind of media outlet that they could. To try to get them to think that they were missing out on something. And the government wanted to wage earners per every household instead of just one. And also they wanted to destroy the nuclear family.
[00:11:38] And it's so amazing to me that we allowed it, that we didn't see it. And that we, that we allowed, you know, the idea that a woman wants to think of herself as powerful and competent. That's not a bad thing, but now it's gone all in the direction of girl power and nothing for boys, nothing. And then the girls want to sit and be pampered as the, the girl power victim, right? That we've created, right?
[00:12:07] This, this victim. So they have to go the other way, which is all powerful. Don't need men at all. And the men are over here going, uh, are we in this equation? Are we part of this? What's going on? And that's what, uh, that's what drives me crazy is that female empowerment. Um, it's pretty, it's pretty selfish. It's pretty, I mean, it's all about them, right? And when you're a mom, it's all about, it's all about the family.
[00:12:35] And so, and raising those kids, I'm going to come right back. Phone lines are lighting up. So I do want to hear from you when I come back on this subject and I'll save the nicotine stuff. I can save that for next week, but, um, I'll be right back. Kate Daly show Kate Daly radio.com. I want to hear what your thoughts are. Hey everybody.
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[00:14:26] This is the Kate Daly Show. We use you all alone. Don't you feel like I'm crying? Welcome back, Kate Daly Show. Definitely a Friday show.
[00:14:51] And I love to get into these types of topics as much as the other ones because I feel like there's such an importance to say what's not being said right now in America. And everybody's sort of walking on eggshells, you know, with the whole feminist thing. And all these young girls are saying, I'm a feminist. I'm a feminist. I don't even know what it means. They don't even know what the movement's about. And then on top of it, I don't even think boys know what to do anymore. And so it's getting confusing out there. I do have a caller. Let's start there. Hi, caller. Welcome to the show. Go right ahead.
[00:15:22] Hey there. Hi. I just wanted to thank you for this show. Sure. You're good. I appreciate it so much. I am a 36-year-old mom of two. Love it. And on paper, I would probably check the box of a feminist because I'm also a business owner. And I have about 30 employees. But I also am able to homeschool my children. Wow. And my husband plays a vital role in raising my children.
[00:15:50] And I just want young moms to know that it is doable. And I'm so grateful for men in our lives. And without them, I wouldn't be able to run a business. I wouldn't be able to homeschool my children. I love being a homemaker. I love being a wife. And there's no greater joy that I've experienced out of being able to live all aspects of being a business owner, a mom, a wife,
[00:16:14] than being at home and filling that motherly role and letting my husband help provide as well. So I just want to thank you for this show because I think it's so important. Thank you. Girls out there, go be moms. Yeah. I love this. That's where the cue joy is. I love it. Yay. I love it. Thank you. I love the phone call. Thank you. And I'm thankful for the men in our lives. We couldn't do anything without them. I know. And they couldn't do it without us, too. Exactly. Exactly. Teamwork makes the dream work. And that's how it happened.
[00:16:45] I love it. Thank you. I love this call. Thank you so much. Thank you. Really appreciate it. I love that call. I love that call. You know what? It's when you support each other, you know? It's really a fantastic thing. Maybe that's why God designed it that way, you know, that men and women would get together and have a life together. Hi, caller. Welcome to the show. Go right ahead. Hey there, Kate. Happy Friday. Happy Friday. What's on your mind?
[00:17:11] Have you seen, maybe you've talked about it already and I didn't catch it, but that show that's on Netflix, Adolescence? Yeah, I was just going to talk about it. Yeah. Yeah. I've seen that. Wow, yeah. Because it's like attacking, you know, so-called toxic masculinity. Yes. It's disturbing. Go ahead. Yeah, yeah. It's super interesting. I mean, it's well acted, well done. But you could see the propaganda in it. Yes.
[00:17:36] And of course, the kid who does the stabbing is a Caucasian kid. Oh, I know. They made him, yeah. There's just so much propaganda. Let me, I'll talk about that. I'll take you off the air. I'll talk about it. But so I was watching the show Adolescence and I was told by a friend to watch this show that I'd probably want to comment it, you know, for the show. And they're right.
[00:18:00] It's a show about a kid who's 13, who's accused of a murder, and the murder is stabbing a girl. And they had had some altercations. The girl sort of said some bullying things to him, and he didn't feel very good about himself, and he stabs her. And the show is about what took place when the arrest happened and what happened after. It's an interesting show because they're kind of acting like this is going on all the time, and it's not.
[00:18:30] This was a very selective case over in the UK. And one particular case that they tried to kind of make it look like this is everywhere, and it's not. And the thing is, it was really interesting how in the very end the parents were trying to come out of it without the guilt. Okay? And you knew they felt a little guilty. Like, what did we do wrong?
[00:18:58] Like, why would he go and murder another kid? And they're coming to grips with that. And there was a scene where the mom is going, yeah, I mean, he would just go in his room and be on his computer until 1, 3 in the morning. And I just, you know, tried to tell him to go to bed. And the dad was like, yeah, I tried to, you know, I just didn't really spend a lot of time. But it's not our fault. It's not our fault. And I'm like, well, you probably could have done a lot more, you know.
[00:19:26] And there was this, well, we can't do anything about society. We can't do anything about this. And, you know, we're just busy. And I just sat there thinking, wow, I wonder how many people have that conversation. You know, we're just busy. Whatever goes on, goes on. And the whole role of parenting is to kind of help your kids and be with your kids and all the rest. It was a really interesting show because they really were trying to kind of go after the white male as the toxic one.
[00:19:57] Oh, disturbing. Be right back. Kate Daly Show. I'll take your calls, too. Be right back. This is the Kate Daly Show.
[00:20:23] All right. Welcome back. Kate Daly Show on a Friday. And there's so much to say.
[00:20:50] And because I'm saying this on the radio, it doesn't mean you have to agree with me. But I don't know how many women are out there that will draw attention to the boys and draw attention to the dads. And we need more of that. And there's a lot of confusing things going on in society right now. And if there's ever a time when we need stability and households with stability, it's now.
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[00:22:16] And one day if I have to watch the tape, I'm going to cringe. But we live and learn, right? Just like I had to learn how to cook. And I had to learn how to feed the family. And I love cooking. But I didn't start out that way. I didn't start out knowing how to cook. And I think that if you ask most men, because I almost think they're afraid to say this. Because they want to be, they want to not cause problems. And they want to support.
[00:22:44] And so they're like, hey, it's fine if we do takeout again. But I know men to a certain degree. And I'll say that they sure like a home-cooked meal. And they sure like it when their wives are happy to see them. They like it when you're feminine. And they like it when you're someone that is a nurturer to that family. I mean, tell me if I'm wrong. I guess I could be. But I think men are afraid to say that now.
[00:23:13] I really do. I think they're almost afraid to say it because of societal norm right now that we've created that says if you say that, you're stuck in the 50s. You're one of those guys. You want to suppress women. And it has nothing to do with that. It's just about needs. Guys' needs. Right? And, you know, there's a couple of things we did. I think we did right in parenting.
[00:23:40] And I'll share a couple of those things because I had a house guest who was asking me about this. And so I'll share this with you. But, you know, we gave the kids, you know, three days where they could choose if they three days a year. It was like, you don't have to play sick. You don't want to go to school. You don't want to go to church. Okay. Stay home. You know, true life. Okay. We're not going to make every decision for you. We're not going to cram it down your throat. Okay. Just say when. Right?
[00:24:09] And my kids loved that. They loved that. They thought that was the best thing ever. You mean I could just stay home? Yep. You can just stay home. Right? And so there were times when we were actually pretty good and pretty flexible in that. But they also knew that we had standards and values. They also knew what those values were. But I never wanted to cram anything down anyone's throat. Right? I wanted them to choose. And so I think that's important.
[00:24:37] And then dinner time. Dinner time was a big deal for us. Always a big deal that we sat around a table. And that we had dinner together. And I grew up that way too. And something about that is very nurturing to that family. Because then you're sitting and talking. And you're in a situation where you have to talk. Right? And now that the kids are out of the house, it's converted into a big Sunday dinner. Sunday meal. And I'm usually cooking all day for that. So it's fun.
[00:25:07] I love it. Are you kidding? Those are the best times. I wouldn't give that up for anything. I think sometimes nowadays we get too busy. And in that busyness and in the kids doing a million things and running the kids around, they forego the dinner. They forego the family time. They forego the vacation together. They forego being a family in order to accomplish and try to be the next NBA star or whatever it is. And I don't agree with that.
[00:25:34] I think you should lessen the time that the kids have things to do. So that they can be still. So they can read. So they can go play in the dirt. I used to call it my spray and wash test. If you're buying spray and wash, because the kids are getting dirty out in the yard, that's a good thing. And so if you're buying a lot of spray and wash, you're doing good, right? For those kids. Because they're able to play and pretend and do all of those things. You know, yesterday I said, you know, the tomboy is extinct now.
[00:26:04] I, it's so sad to me that that's the truth, that we've turned it into this. It's, it's more about the parents needing mental health help than it is the kids. And I think sometimes, you know, we're in a situation where we allow societal norms to become the norm. And it shouldn't be. It shouldn't be. And we're so afraid of offending each other now. And even this will probably offend somebody out there, right? They'll, they'll be so offended.
[00:26:32] Um, I just think that there's a big importance behind motherhood and, uh, and womanhood and feeling comfortable in your skin to be a woman. And you know what I have found? I have found that the good men out there, they'll cherish a good woman and they'll do all kinds of things for that woman. If, if, and when that woman is also respecting them back and, and giving them their, um, innate, um, qualities and abilities. Right.
[00:27:01] I've said over and over again on the show that, you know, my husband is the leader and the guider of our home, right? That of our family, he's in that position. He knew he would be in that position when we got married. I knew he would be in that position. It doesn't make me less powerful to acknowledge that his innate sense of, of being a man is to lead and guide the family. And so as a woman, I'm not going to make every decision.
[00:27:30] I can't, I have to have him in on this decision-making process, just like he needs me in on this decision-making process. Because if I become the momager and I'm the only one in the, in the room and my presence is bigger than everyone else who gains from that? Well, it looks like only me, right? Family doesn't gain from that. And so what we do when we're teaching our, our young boys is, is that I'm a, I'm a pretty powerful gal.
[00:27:58] I'm a, I'm a pretty opinionated gal, but I also recognize that, that that man has a role in our household and it's the most important role. Right. Right. And when my boys see that, then they also get a sense of, wait a minute, I have a duty to my family.
[00:28:19] And that duty means that really, when you get right down to it, um, if you're a Christian, it would mean that, that that man goes to God to ask him how to guide and lead that family. And so the women aren't leapfrogging over the guy, the guy goes, the guy is, is, is in a position where he has a heavy mantle to guide and direct that family. So of course he wants to do, do it pretty well, doesn't he?
[00:28:47] And that would involve a lot of prayer. And it would also involve, uh, leading a pretty Christ-like life to be able to do that. Right. Only makes the man better. Then it makes that family better. Like I said, you don't have to agree with anything I'm saying. I just feel like these things that I'm saying just in this just short segment of the show aren't said out loud anymore.
[00:29:14] And that makes me sad because I think still a lot of people understand the roles of women and men and want to embrace them. But when the girls are taught now, you're all powerful and you just need to be a pampered princess and you just need to go do your nails. And, and let the guy go work hard and make sure that you have every single thing. And I know that when people are starting out and getting married, what's great is that you're taking on that sacrifice together. You're building a family, you're building a life.
[00:29:45] And, and it used to be that we all kind of realized that getting married. And now I think things are changing a little bit and I'm not sure that it's in a positive direction. Um, the expectations is what I'm talking about. Even the expectations from society and on Facebook and on social media. Be right back. Kate Daly show. Kate Daly radio.com.
[00:30:16] This is the Kate Daly show. Kate Daly show. I'll try to fit a few calls in. How about that? Eight, eight, eight, six, seven, three, 1450. Eight, eight, eight, six, seven, three, 1450.
[00:30:45] And, uh, so appreciate you for listening, for listening in. And I'll tell you, you know, um, I was also asked by this friend of mine, um, who's a, who's a younger mom, uh, said to me, you know, what, what's the secret? What's the secret? I got married after knowing my husband for only 12 days, 12 days. And, uh, we've been married almost 30 years.
[00:31:08] And let me just tell you a date night, date night, every single weekend, um, without fail was one of our secrets. And when I say that, what I mean is we put each other first in the family. Now I know a lot of people out there might go, but the kids should be first. No, not really. You've got to put you first because they're watching you. You're the example. And I always felt like, no, we were the heart of the family.
[00:31:37] And then you have your kids and your kids are going to be learning from you. But, um, date night was a big deal. And in the, in the, in the times when we didn't have a dollar, you went to the dollar movie. You, you know, you got some tacos, you sat in a parking lot, you talked, but you went out. Okay. And, um, and then of course it graduates into maybe a nicer meal than tacos, Taco Bell.
[00:32:01] But, um, but I've done all those kinds of date nights and there wasn't one that was better than the other. I'll tell you that much because really it was putting each other first and remembering why you got married and remembering that how much you love each other. And then the kids are actually happier when they see that. When they see you date, they love it. Try it. And I think now we're into that kind of helicopter thing going on where the kids are, the kids dictate, you know, what happens in the family.
[00:32:31] And I think that's lopsided to tell you the truth. That's just my opinion. I just think it gets lopsided. It's like, um, everybody's running around trying to please the kids and their kids. Right. All right. Caller, go right ahead. Greetings, Kay. Hi there. The guest made an excellent point about the absence of fathers. And just consider this in nature since we've been talking about wolves early in the week. Sure. The wolves are raised by an alpha male and a female and the rest of the family, which is called the pack.
[00:33:00] It has a family. There's never been a case where a wild wolf has ever killed a human in North America. But look at cats. Look at bears. They're raised by mother only. And after the first year or so, they're run off because another male wants to come along and re-impregnate that woman. So how many babies, mamas, mama daddies, and all this nonsense? It's totally destructive. And you go back prior to the welfare system when you had intact families.
[00:33:28] You didn't have the crime problem because you had a daddy there and a mama there and an extended family there looking out for that young kid. You're right. You're in line with the solution. Yeah. You're right. Eliminate the welfare system. I agree. I agree with you. It actually did way better when it was in the church's hands and in, you know, when it was smaller and closer to home.
[00:33:53] Because when it was in the church's hands and they were doing it actually in the 1800s and early 1900s before welfare came along, it seemed as though, you know, there was a tighter grip on it. It was only an emergency. It was for a short time. Everybody realized that people might come up on hard times. It was never a lifelong thing. And they turned it into theft by taxation and then turning it into this never-ending welfare program. And you're right. It does feed into that. Thank you so much. I love the phone call.
[00:34:22] I really do. I really appreciate that. Good insight. Great insight. We are in a time when, for me on the radio, and I've said this a million times, I'm not standing on the shoulders of the women before me. I'm standing on the shoulders of the men who wrote that constitution, who listened to God. That was the key, right? Okay. And that is what enabled the liberty for me to be on this radio doing what I'm doing right now. Okay.
[00:34:53] But a lot of girls out there are getting really confused with the whole woman power thing. And kind of adopting themselves into feminism when they should probably look at that a little closer and see what's under that hood. And it's not great. Because it really just kind of goes against humility. And when you go up against humility, there's a problem there.
[00:35:22] When you're humble, it's amazing how your perspective changes and how your perspective in serving one another changes. Right? And I don't mind serving my husband out of love. I don't mind that. I don't mind if what's important to him is a sandwich, I'll make him one. It's not servitude. It's serving.
[00:35:44] And so I sometimes feel like we get lost in what we think female or woman empowerment is. And the woman empowerment is selling girl power, girl power, you're powerful. And everybody needs to do what you want. And that isn't the case. Hi, caller. Welcome to the show. Go right ahead. There was a stat I heard about 30 years ago that really brought it home to me about the importance of a father and a family.
[00:36:12] And this is in California, death row. So there's a correlation between who was on death row and who didn't have a father. But it wasn't just a correlation. It was every or virtually everybody on death row had no father or was raised with a father. If that doesn't tell you the importance of a father, I don't know what. Oh, man. Thank you for that. Really appreciate the insight. Great insight. Look, we need to shore up our guys.
[00:36:41] Let them know that they are extremely valuable and don't let them get caught up in this. They don't know this toxic masculinity crap because it's a lie. And to be masculine is a good thing. Okay. It's it's what makes them a boy. It's what makes them a man. The masculinity is huge. So when everybody says toxic masculinity, the guys just don't even know what to do anymore. And this isn't helpful. It's not helpful to our society.
[00:37:10] So if we could kind of take the time to strengthen families, you know, all get on your knees together. Teach your kids how to pray. Give your kids that that sense of worth and value. And don't just tell them that, you know, they're perfect and wonderful and they do everything right. Just let them experience things. They'll get their confidence from that more or less. It's nice once in a while to say that to them. I'm not saying that. It's just that it's gone overboard the other way. So you're perfect.
[00:37:40] You know, you did every single thing right. It's so frustrating because I'm like, well, it's okay to fail and it's okay to have a hard time and it's okay to experience things and it's okay to work. And it's it's okay. You got to go through things. And sometimes we want to we want to just save our kids from all of that. And it's a lesson I've had to continuously be reminded of in my own life. Right. So none of us are perfect out there parenting. We're just doing our best. We're all going to screw our kids up. Trust me.
[00:38:08] So you just want to do it as less as possible. Okay. So don't be so hard on yourself. But at the same time, we got to get back to that family that what makes the family work. Right. Get on our knees together and and and give your kids that sense. I'll tell you what, that'll do volumes for them. Have have family dinner together. Another thing that will just mean so much to them as they grow up. I've really appreciated the last couple of hours. And thank you for that.
[00:38:38] I'd love to hear from you by email to Kate at Kate Daly radio dot com. He'll be coming back for a show on men and women to more or less. And be faithful. Be faithful. Be fearless. And I'll see you back here on Monday.